Sunday 19 April 2026…

Sunday is a quiet day here in hospital.

This morning it rained and the first thing I knew about it was the droplets of water from the window.

The cannula in my right wrist, as that was the only place the nurse on Friday could find a good vein, that gave up the ghost this morning and had to be removed and a new one is in the crook of my right elbow. Neither are ideal places to insert a cannula as they were inserted in a joint but you got to go where there is good vein access. I absolutely refuse to have needles and cannula’s inserted into the back of my hands and I don’t care how good my veins are there as they are my no go areas. Being in my 50’s, I’ve gotten “old lady hands” and the skin is thinning there. The last time a doctor inserted a cannula in the back of my hand, while I was in hospital last year at Flinders Hospital, it hurt like you wouldn’t believe and it didn’t last, the vein blew, so no thank you, we are not going through that again.

Antibiotics, Frusomide, is still needed, so it’s all the good things through the cannula, rather than tablets.

Watched the church service from Waypoint Uniting Parafield Gardens this morning online. It was a great service. I wish the pastor Barry, and his wife Kelly, a well deserved break as Barry goes on long overdue long service leave until July. He was meant to go on long service leave back in 2020 but then Covid appeared and no one was going anywhere except from one room to another in our homes.

Had a rubbish night sleep last night after falling asleep around 10pm and waking up at 1 something and not being able to fall asleep again, so an afternoon nap was what I needed and I had a good afternoon nap.

I hope for a better night of sleep tonight. 

Until next time

Kaye

Saturday 18 April 2026…

I’m back on the Frusomide injections to help pee out the fluid that’s still in my legs.

The intravenous antibiotics are for the legs only as the other infections that were possibly starting, now have been settled from all the intravenous antibiotics I received yesterday as they got onto it so quickly.

Feeling very gassy today from all the reflux, not a pleasurable experience. Good thing a doctor has charted for me Gaviscon to have as needed.

Visitors today were a life long friend… a sister from another sister, a friend from church, two of my cousin’s and an Aunty. Thank you for the visit everyone!

I’ve started writing in a notebook all the things the executors of my will, the things they will need to know when the time comes. I want to make their life as easy as possible in seeing to my wishes and not play a guessing game.

Being a Saturday, hospital life is quieter, you know it’s the weekend.

Today I have been injected with Frusomide to pee out excess fluid and when that hits, it hits. Antibiotics for the leg infection, blood thinners in the morning and evening, I joke that one day I will go to drink something and leak through all the injection holes haha.

Getting ready to watch the Adelaide Crows play tonight on TV.

One of the treats I am enjoying though is my cup of Milo at supper time. So good.

Until next time

Kaye

My day today…

What a morning! It’s one of those days… TMI warning… I was burping like a trooper after breakfast, hey, I burp a lot after eating food in general since I was in the Flinders Hospital last year but one of the doctor’s ordered Gaviscon… yay! That settled the reflux after lunch.

This morning, I was switched back to intravenous Frusomide, to get rid of the fluid in my legs. I was switched several days ago to the tablets but that wasn’t shifting the fluid and I was gaining weight with the fluid in my legs again. The intravenous Fluid meds because they work so well in peeing out all the excess fluid, I have nicknamed it “The Floozy Doozy meds”.

Then this morning, I was taken down to the fifth floor for a third time for the thyroid biopsy… success this time. Pathology were available to test the samples in real time as the doctor took the biopsy sample needed from my neck. At least they numbed the area before sticking the needle in.

They also did an ultrasound on my left leg as the doctor who saw me this morning, she noticed that my left leg was a little warm under touch, so she wanted to see if it was an infection starting, or a blood clot forming as cancer loves clotting blood, even though I’m on a high dose of blood thinning injections twice a day.

I also had a CT scan with the contrast dye as the doctor when she took blood tests this morning as she had to use the ultrasound to guide a new cannula into my arm, and she took blood tests at the same time. The blood tests came back with my lactose levels high, so she wanted to find out if that was a new infection forming or what was causing that. So I’m back on high dose of intravenous antibiotics as well.

As the doctor joked, she’s just making sure I don’t die sooner than when it will happen. I appreciate her dark sense of humour haha.

I had a visit from one of the hospital’s Spiritual Team this afternoon, that was a good chat.

A student doctor came and took another blood test this afternoon while I was hooked up to antibiotics IV for two hours.

A manager of where I used to work came in and helped me with some stuff that was superannuation related. Or tried to help me, unfortunately the website wasn’t that helpful but she will come back next week.

I’m surprising and amazing people everywhere about my positive attitude, good humour and acceptance of what is happening. What is the alternative though? Being in denial and going through all of it regardless? Having a woe is me attitude that doesn’t help in the long run? Of course I have had my pity parties but I can’t change what it happening, I just need to trust the journey and the advice given, making my own informed decisions and hope I make the good and the right choices for me.

No one really knows how long they have to live on this earth, so have the attitude of every day on the right side of the dirt, is a good day.

Until next time

Kaye

Today’s events…

One of the things that makes me smile is when it comes to nurse change over time where the nurses of each shift do hand over for the nurses taking over and where a couple of them see me and wave. They may not be looking after me on their shift but they enjoy recognising a familiar, friendly face.

TMI warning… hope no one eating anything before reading this paragraph… the low residue diet, aka a no fibre diet, is definitely working. The poop is nothing more than sludge passing through, which is what the doctor’s in the colon/rectal team wanted. I also have made up a name for my poops… Poop Soup lol.

This morning, I was told by my morning nurse that I will be going for my thyroid biopsy this afternoon, after 3pm. After yesterday’s debacle, I hope it happens today.

This morning I spoke with a psychologist from Oncology and had a good conversation with them. They are also referring me to speak with someone from their spiritual team as well because I told the psychologist about my deep connection with God.

Time to give thanks to those people wearing purple, the volunteers, who do the kind, caring things for patients here in this hospital.  I thank you all for what you do to make a patients stay in hospital better.

Jiminy Cricket… an orderly came to my room to take me down for the biopsy on my thyroid just after 3pm, guess what?! We get down to level 5, only to be told that the doctor’s have cancelled the biopsy for today and they rescheduled it for tomorrow. At least I got to get out of the room for about 15 minutes and on the way down, I bumped into someone I knew who recognised me from the back of my head, after many years of sitting behind me at church haha.

This afternoon when I returned to the room, I started the ball rolling on my will, with speaking over the phone to a lawyer. Now to figure out, who gets what, what can be donated and the rest chucked away.

Had a visitor this evening, a friend from church. It’s comforting to know there is an army of people I know who are praying for me, I thank God for you all.

Time now to relax and write this blog and the day that was.

Until next time

Kaye

Just rolling with it all…

While talking with one of my Doctor’s from my medical team, when you hear the words, “palliative treatment”, you know that there are no options for any operations to prolong life as your body with all its pre-existing serious medical conditions wouldn’t tolerate it. Then when you get informed that you only have months to live, that is something else but you know what? I’m at peace with all that. I could be all woe is me, why me? and all the rest of it but it doesn’t change the final result. So I make the choice of just taking each new day I have and enjoy the life I have left, the best I can.

Last night, I couldn’t sleep, too many thoughts going through my head as my brain was catching up and recapping everything that has been overloading it these last two weeks. Then I thought about who I can leave things to? I thought about life, God, things I may still want to cross off my bucket list. I even thought about funerals and what I would like to have… nothing over the top, just something simple with maybe a cremation and my ashes spread somewhere I love. So many thoughts were rattling around in my mind.

This morning, I had 2 former workmates visiting me. That was a good catch up, even if it was interrupted by the physio wanting me to do my little walk and a few leg exercises.

This afternoon was supposed to be a biopsy on my thyroid as the recent ultrasound had shown a nodule in my left side which needed further investigation to determine if it is something new, connected with the existing cancer, or nothing to worry about at all. For this to happen, they need someone from pathology there to see the biopsy happen in real time to ensure that there has been enough of a sample taken, by jabbing a thin needle in the neck and taking the sample with the needle but there was a miscommunication between departments and I was bumped until tomorrow as they had overbooked 3 different patients for a 2pm biopsy. I said that I don’t like needles, I’m currently a black and blue pin cushion right now being on a high dose of blood thinning injections as I’ve had blood clots in the past and am on blood thinners for the rest of my life as it is. So they decided to only do the biopsy once as I’m needlephobic. So tomorrow, it is.

Just had one of my wonderful doctor’s from the hospital visit me on her way home as she has been trying for over a week to get a hospital psychologist to come and see me and have a talk with me as she knows I’ve had a pretty tough 3 years with my medical conditions alone and they keep bumping me. It seems, and I do understand this, I really do, it’s the fact that I’m not thinking about doing myself in, they won’t prioritise. She assured me that a psychologist will see me at the end of the week as she is advocating for me and everything I’m going through doesn’t make it any less to deal with.

This afternoon, I had a visit from a couple of former neighbours who are full of faith for God and at the end of their visit, they prayed for me. Blessings to them both.

Time to get the things done, like organise a will. I asked 3 of my cousin’s if they would be executor’s of my will and told them to think it over as it is a huge responsibility. It also gives me time to think who gets what, what gets donated to charity and those kind of things that need to be thought about.

Time for me to organise my thoughts.

Until next time

Kaye

Yesterday, I asked the tough questions to the Colon/Rectal Team as they did their rounds visiting patients but because this is a new diagnosis, no one knows the answers to. No one could tell me how fast the mass in my bowel is growing, what is my life expectancy, it’s all now a watch to see things as they happen and make the decisions on treatment and how to act as we go. The mass in the bowel isn’t a stage as it has already metastasised to other parts of my body. It’s only treatment and there is no cure.

The funny thing is, it may not even be this cancer that ends my life but one of my other serious health issues.

One thing I know though, there are those who do not know this about me, I have a strong faith in God. I believe that he is here with me, even now in all of everything and I trust His plan for me to the end. Maybe he can help me speak to others going through the same thing?

While I had one of my cousin’s and a woman from my old church visiting me, one of my doctor’s came in to speak to us. My cousin had been filled in by this doctor everything to do with my medical prognosis and treatment already. I filled my cousin in on the rest I needed to fill her in on during her visit.

This bit is the hard bit, so before I say this, I will give you some time to grab a tissue or two before I proceed… got those tissues? Now, I will continue… I’m going to say this gently as I can for everyone reading this… I had spoken with another doctor on Sunday about life expectancy and he gave me at least 5 years. I wasn’t thinking about years from what I know about what I have, I was thinking months, and today, the doctor I was speaking with, did confirm that I do only have months to live, possibly a year if that. I will be given palliative treatment for my cancer.

From hospital, they are looking at places where I can go for care. The options are limited as I’m not over 65 years of age, so nursing homes are not an option. I’m not eligible for NDIS and I knew I wouldn’t be either as my current medical conditions aren’t eligible. Speaking with this doctor today, all I know is that the hospital are working on somewhere suitable to take care of me despite my age being a challenge. All I know is that I will not end up on the street as they acknowledge that they have a duty of care for me.

I had a phone call from the Oncology Team at Flinders Hospital as they received a referral and they wanted to make a booking to see me as an Outpatient as most of my hospital appointments are there. I told him that I don’t know where I am going to be after being discharged from the hospital but I did agree with him to make an appointment so I don’t get lost in the system and have to take forever to get another opportunity to see Oncology. If I end up somewhere close to the RAH, I can get them to refer me there instead. At least I’m in the system with Oncology and not lost somewhere.

As I just rest and prepare myself for the night, I catch up on messages and finish this post, while watching TV. I’m just living day to day now to enjoy every moment of life I have left.

Until next time

Kaye

Sunday Thoughts…

You don’t get a day of rest on a Sunday when you are in hospital lol. The nurses still come in to do their observations regularly at change of shift. The doctor’s still do their rounds visiting all the patients in their care. The hospital still buzzes with day to day activity.

After being on a clear fluids diet since before Easter until today, it’s nice to be eating actual food again. (I do recommend the jelly though, just saying). My Low Residue diet that I am on now, after being released by the Colon/Rectal Team returned me to real food and the Low Residue diet, rather than the Ward Diet, so that will be friendlier to my easily upset stomach as there are foods that I still am not able to eat. Anything oily, greasy, fatty, too sweet, too acidic, fried, gives me issues with dry retching and sometimes vomiting as my stomach can no longer handle those foods. So my lunch of chicken, rice, gravy, carrots and cauliflower was absolutely delicious. There was a bread roll as well to go with it and for dessert, vanilla custard, which I only had some of the vanilla custard as that was too sweet for me.

The doctor who saw me this morning doing rounds, he asked me if I would help in participating with a program in talking with student doctors who would ask questions and then do an exam afterwards. I was thought of as I am a “complex patient” having multiple health issues and I said that I would be willing to help. These are student doctor’s doing their examinations for medical school and if I can help them to become better doctor’s and I can help them learn from a human perspective and not just from what they learn from a cadaver, then I’m game.

Had some “sister’s from other misters” visit this afternoon, that was a wonderful time chatting and catching up with them, as always.

The doctor’s are taking me off the antibiotics for the infection on my legs as I’ve been on intravenous antibiotics for a week now and they don’t want to affect the cells that have good gut health and create problems there, so they will now allow the body to do it’s thing with the infection.

Daily blood tests have been a norm as well. Being on blood thinners though, I’m bruising easily. My veins are offering a challenge as well to anyone taking blood because as soon as they sense a needle coming towards them, they move lol. The last cannula they put in my, which is my third, they had to call in their Cannula Team with the ultrasound machine and use that to get it in. 3 doctor’s tried and failed but not the experts last Thursday.

I still need to ask the big questions but since this is a new diagnosis, those questions will be answered later.

Welcome to the roller-coaster that is currently my life, if you are reading this.

Until next time

Kaye

Christmas time memories…

This Christmas I was reflecting on the family tradition of lunch on Christmas Day.

It is a day when everyone who is available on my Dad’s side of the family comes together and celebrates Christmas.

The tradition started before I was even born as out of my cousin’s, I’m the third youngest but this tradition has been going for over 60 years with my older cousin’s.

When I was born, we’d go see my Mum’s family for Christmas lunch and then go to my Dad’s parents, my Grandparents house, for Christmas Dinner, which was always a bbq cooked by Grandpa and being Australia, we would eat outside in the backyard and then after eating some Christmas pudding (Grandpa would put sixpences in the pudding too) and custard, we’d even get a bottle of Coke from Grandpa to drink in glass bottles, not plastic bottles like now and you needed a bottle cap opener because there was no screw top cap. After we had our bottles of Coke, my cousin’s and I would go for a walk around the area and wish everyone we saw a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year as we walked the streets going to one of the many playgrounds in the area. Thank you Daylight Savings time as well for the play time at the playground!

As time went on and Grandpa and Grandma got too old to host the family Christmas Dinner, an Aunty and Uncle took over. They only lived 3 doors down from my Grandparents home, which was convenient as their fridge was used to store some of the food to be eaten on Christmas Day.

As the years have gone by, the family Christmas Dinner has now become the family Christmas lunch with everyone who is available comes for lunch.

My Uncle and Aunty, they hosted all of us for Christmas Dinner, which one year turned into Christmas lunch and from that Christmas to now, it has remained Christmas Day lunch, for many years before my Aunty decided she had enough and felt someone else should take it over.

Another Uncle and Aunty, they hosted all of us for 3 Christmas Day lunches before one of my cousin’s said they will hold Christmas lunch at their house.

So now Christmas lunch is rotated around the homes of 3 of my cousin’s as they have the indoor space and backyard space to have us all there.

When my second cousin’s were born, that started new traditions in the family as they grew and embraced what is family Christmas lunch and now they are adults, I hope they continue keeping the lunch as a tradition, especially when they meat future partners and start having children of their own.

Over the last 53 years, the time I have been alive, we’ve had loved one’s pass away, there has been family breakdowns and family separations where some members of the family no longer come to family Christmas lunch but I still think about every single person not there joining us.

I think about the people who have passed away; Grandpa and Grandma, both my parents, 2 of my aunties – one of them passed away earlier this year and this is the first Christmas without her, a “cousin in law”. I think about those who don’t come to Christmas lunch even though they have a long standing invitation but don’t join in – family breakdowns can be a bitch but in this situation, I completely understand why and I hope all the people involved are happy with their chosen families, that’s all I ask for.

On Christmas Day, I love cracking open a bon bon to read the bad jokes, wear the paper hat and see what crap toy there is. I love eating Christmas pudding with custard and ice cream, I love singing along to the music playing as we gather and getting into a singing war with who can sing a song better, my cousin’s and I or the younger generation, especially the song, Do they Know it’s Christmas?

I remember when my Aunty and Uncle took over from Grandpa and Grandma having the family at their house for Christmas Dinner and all the cousins, we’d be in my cousin’s bedroom singing along with the songs playing loudly on her record player. Do they Know It’s Christmas? was a favourite when it first was released all those years ago and we cousin’s sang it loudly.  Sorry Next Gen Cousins but we’re always going to sing that song better than you ever will!

I hope that when my cousin’s and I are no longer around, that their kids and future generations keep the tradition of Christmas family lunch going and I know they will because they are tight and best friends.

What family traditions do you have at Christmas time? Let me know in the comments.

Merry Christmas everyone from my family to yours.

Until next time

Kaye x

Social media…

I come from a generation who lived before social media was even thought of. Our social networking was talking to our next door neighbours, actually going to visit people at their house, speaking with people in the supermarket aisles or in the checkout line, conversing with the people we bumped into regularly in the street, or picking up the landline phone to call someone. We didn’t have social media and we didn’t have mobile (cell) phones back then, so I got to do all my crazy stuff without it being posted on social media for the world to hear about it.

My first plunge into social media was with Facebook in 2010, then a few months later I created a Twitter (now X) account and over the years I have accounts on many social media platforms. Some social media platforms, I have multiple accounts.

So here in 2024, I have social media accounts on Facebook, Twitter (Dear Elon Musk, I hate the name X and so I refuse to call your app that, signed me), Instagram, Threads, Snapchat, Bluesky, Clapper, Twitch, Rumble, YouTube, Discord, WhatsApp, Tumblr, Linkedin, Pinterest, Reddit, Messenger, Favorited and of course TikTok.

Some of the apps you probably haven’t heard of as some of these apps are relatively new and others don’t have the huge number of users unlike the mainstream popular apps have.

Why do I have so many social networking apps I hear you ask? Well, I wished I had a great answer but I hear about an app and if I think it’s interesting, I have to find out more and the best way for me to do that is to create an account for that app. I can only learn so much about the different apps by listening to other people talk about a particular app, or find out what information there is from Google.

There is however a content creator on TikTok who does livestreams and he’s on multiple platforms and he challenged his regulars to follow him on at least one other platform, or to follow him on all the platforms he’s on. Several of us regulars opted to follow him on all the platforms he’s on as he thought no one would take him up on that challenge, so he made it a dare to follow him on all the platforms. Apparently there were a few of us who if you dare us to do something, it’s game on, we’re going to do it! Lol

I’ve met some really wonderful people from all over the world through social media, so much so that they have become family. I’ve also met some of the most entitled, toxic, drama filled a$$hol3s as well on social media who have earned their rightful place on a blocked list but the good people outnumber the bad ones.

I enjoy learning about people, I enjoy seeing the parts of the world they live in, I enjoy talking to people and it’s all in real time. Whether I’m watching a livestream and typing comments in the chat, or in a guest box talking with people, it fascinates me as social media in general has made the world a smaller place to live.

There are however some aspects of social media I do not like. I detest the keyboard warrior’s who hide behind their keyboards, the trolls, the bullies, toxic people who love to create drama that break friendships or groups. What happened to simply agreeing to disagree about something? Or just being kind and respectful of other people’s opinions? Or be open enough and willing to see another person’s point of view without forcing your own point of view onto others?

When I joined TikTok in June 2022, TikTok was still a great app, then in 2023, TikTok went down hill big time as more people were doing battles by then and people opted to give up their jobs to make a living doing battles because it’s easy money, all you need is big gifters to support your battles. There’s now more bullies and keyboard warrior’s who hide behind faceless profile pictures on burner accounts. Toxic people are on the rise as well on the app.

One of the things that makes me always laugh though is how many people want tons of followers because they think that having a large number of followers makes them look popular. They post nothing, they follow no one, they aren’t known people, they contribute nothing in making the world a better place to live or contribute to making people’s lives better, they just want followers for clout in feeding their own ego’s all because they think that having a large number of followers makes them look impressive as a status symbol.

One thing for me about social media, I have never been about how many friends I have on Facebook or how many followers I can get on any of my socials. I don’t even follow everyone back who follows me. I don’t accept all the friends requests I receive on Facebook either, well the legitimate friend requests mainly, not the scammers or fakes as I remove them automatically. I have never been about winning any kind of popularity contest and never will. I’m about quality over quantity and making genuine connections with people. Even when people unfriend me on Facebook or decide to unfollow me, my attitude is “it’s their loss”. I simply don’t have an ego, I don’t do drama, I don’t do fake friends, I don’t do toxicity (okay, we can all exhibit toxic traits but if someone is totally toxic in how they interact and engage with people, I’m definitely out as I have absolutely no time for toxic people). If someone unfollows me, I will unfollow right back. I do have my boundaries that I will not compromise on.

There are people I have made true friendships with on the socials and those people are on my Facebook. Facebook is my inner sanctum as that is where I share parts of my life I don’t share anywhere else. It’s where I have my family and my real life friends and if a social media friend makes it into my Facebook feed, then they know they are family and I trust that person just as they trust me when they share parts of their life.

I’m a big believer though of the age old adage of don’t post on social media anything you don’t want the world to see. That works for me as I’m never going to post anything that I don’t want to share with the world because once it’s on social media, you can delete a post but somewhere on the internet, that post will still remain.

I love social media for not only connecting with people from around the world but I also love it for finding out what is happening in the world. I enjoy social media and finding some sleep sounds, quiet music or watch something relaxing on nights when I am unable to fall asleep. Social media has it’s advantages along with its disadvantages.

Whether you’re on social media yourself or not someone who does social media, whether you like social media or not, it is definitely something that will be staying around for a long time to come.

I’m kayezee71 on all my socials, maybe I’ll see you all soon somewhere in Social Media Land sometime soon, you never know.

Until next time

Kaye

I remember when I was young…

When I was a child growing up during the 1970’s, they were fun times and they were simpler times, easier times, they were pretty good times. I have a lot of good memories from my childhood which I will share here as they are wonderful memories I have and will always stay with me. Here’s some of my memories from my childhood.

Every Sunday Mum, Dad and I would see my Grandparents. One week we’d go see my Mum’s Dad, my Grampa I called him, Granma passed away when I was 4, so I didn’t really get to know her growing up but every second Sunday, we’d go see Grampa and have Sunday Tea (Dinner) with him, a beautiful 3 course meal which usually included soup, a roast meal and dessert. My Grampa definitely knew his way around a kitchen and whatever he cooked or prepared, that was always delicious! The other Sunday, we’d go see Grandpa and Grandma, my Dad’s parents and have afternoon tea with them. Grandpa being a baker, he’d always bake a cake and there would always be Arnott’s Shapes biscuits on the table as well and what we didn’t eat, I got to take home with me. That box was emptied out by the time we got home as I’d be in the back seat eating that box of Arnott’s Shapes.

Cars during the 1970’s didn’t have seat belts, or if a car did have seat belts, it was usually the driver and the front seat passenger who had seat belts, the backseat had no seat belts in the car. It seems safety wasn’t a major concern for backseat passengers during the 70’s. I remember a friend of my Dad’s who had a Holden Sandman panel van, there was nothing more fun than siting in the back of that panel van as a kid, no seat belt on and with the top half of the rear door up, the wind in your while driving around town.

Growing up, I was a real tomboy; playing with dolls was not my thing. I had a couple of dolls and a couple imitation Barbie’s but I just never played with them. Now if you gave me a Matchbox or Hot Wheels car, I would play with them happily for hours on end with drag races down the hallway, smash up (demolition) derby’s, police chases, you name it, I loved my collection of Matchbox and Hot Wheels cars, I could entertain myself for hours.

In my street, there were 3 of us kids who were the same age and we’d play “Charlie’s Angels” using the 3 houses and re-inacting the episode we watched of Charlie’s Angels the night before. One friend would play Kris, another friend would play Sabrina and I was Kelly. To this day, sometimes we call each other by our “Charlie’s Angels” names. I had a dog also, a white poodle and he got to be “Charlie”.

The universal code during the 70’s was when the streetlights came on, you got yourself home quick smart. I’d always be across the road at a friend’s house and we’d be playing outside, as soon as those streetlights came on, even if we were in the middle of something, we quickly said our goodbyes to each other and I’d run across the street to home.

During the summer months, I’d generally start a game of street cricket with the neighbours. All I had to do was go out onto middle of the street, which was a quiet street generally with my cricket bat, ball and the rubbish bin and start hitting the ball with the bin as stumps. The neighbours who saw me through their windows, they would slowly come out and the game was started. When a car was coming down the street, someone would call out “car” and we’d move to the side of the road, with either the batsman or the wicket keeper grabbing one bin and the bowler would grab the other bin, which one of the neighbours would grab theirs to use to mark the other end of our “cricket pitch”. There’d be at least 8 houses of immediate neighbours playing street cricket most times it was played.

Christmas was always Christmas lunch with my Grampa (Mum’s Dad), Mum’s brother, aunty, cousin, Dad, Mum and me. Sometimes one of my great uncle’s (Grampa’s brother) and great aunty joined us. We’d have lunch and we’d exchange presents and spread the Christmas cheer. My Aunty, every Christmas without fail would sing “I’m dreaming of a white Christmas”, her favourite song. We’d spend several hours celebrating Christmas and then during the afternoon, we’d part company and then Dad, Mum and I would go to my Grandma and Grandpa’s house for Christmas Tea (Dinner). At Grandma and Grandpa’s there’d be more family gathered there with my grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins. I remember every Christmas Grandpa would give all of us kids a small glass bottle of Coke to drink. You needed a bottle top opener to open those bottles, no screw tops back then. After dinner, my cousins and I would go to a neighbourhood playground and play on the equipment and anyone we came across on our walk to the playground, we would wish them a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. In Australia, it’s Summer and daylight savings time, so we can enjoy being outside on Christmas Day.

One of the things I loved doing at night time while Mum and Dad were watching TV in the lounge room was to make a “blankie fort” using a couple of blankets draped over the back of both of their chairs as they sat next to each other in lounge room. I would grab a couple of kitchen chairs and put them behind Mum and Dad’s chairs and make a pretty cool blanket tent behind them. There I could colour in my colouring books, play with my Matchbox and Hot Wheels cars, build something with Lego and enjoy hanging out in my blankie fort.

Friday night dinner was always night fish and chip night from the local fish and chip night. During the 1970’s we didn’t have all the fast food options we have today and there was no having a ton of take away food either as the dinner was always home cooked meal. There were no dishes to wash up either as Mum, Dad and I would eat fish and chips straight from the pack of wrapped up fish and chips. Sometimes I’d get a Chiko Roll to go with my fish and chips. My mum wasn’t the best cook, so I really loved fish and chip Friday nights the best.

As a Christmas present for my 5th birthday, I remember getting a red bicycle with white tyres, I had never seen a bike with white tyres before, so I felt really special getting this particular bike. The make was Dolly. I spent hours riding around the neighbourhood on that bike going to see my friends, riding to the local shops to pick up some items for Mum, or just riding the bike around the neighbourhood. When I grew out of the bike and it became too small for me, it was given away. I hope that the child who got the bike after me had just as much fun as I did riding it around the place.

That’s just a few of my memories I hold dear about my childhood and now I’m feeling nostalgic, so if you want to find me, I’ll be inside my blankie fort colouring in, or playing with my Matchbox and Hot Wheels cars, or my Lego.

 What memories do you have growing up as a child?

Until next time

Kaye