Christmas time memories…

This Christmas I was reflecting on the family tradition of lunch on Christmas Day.

It is a day when everyone who is available on my Dad’s side of the family comes together and celebrates Christmas.

The tradition started before I was even born as out of my cousin’s, I’m the third youngest but this tradition has been going for over 60 years with my older cousin’s.

When I was born, we’d go see my Mum’s family for Christmas lunch and then go to my Dad’s parents, my Grandparents house, for Christmas Dinner, which was always a bbq cooked by Grandpa and being Australia, we would eat outside in the backyard and then after eating some Christmas pudding (Grandpa would put sixpences in the pudding too) and custard, we’d even get a bottle of Coke from Grandpa to drink in glass bottles, not plastic bottles like now and you needed a bottle cap opener because there was no screw top cap. After we had our bottles of Coke, my cousin’s and I would go for a walk around the area and wish everyone we saw a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year as we walked the streets going to one of the many playgrounds in the area. Thank you Daylight Savings time as well for the play time at the playground!

As time went on and Grandpa and Grandma got too old to host the family Christmas Dinner, an Aunty and Uncle took over. They only lived 3 doors down from my Grandparents home, which was convenient as their fridge was used to store some of the food to be eaten on Christmas Day.

As the years have gone by, the family Christmas Dinner has now become the family Christmas lunch with everyone who is available comes for lunch.

My Uncle and Aunty, they hosted all of us for Christmas Dinner, which one year turned into Christmas lunch and from that Christmas to now, it has remained Christmas Day lunch, for many years before my Aunty decided she had enough and felt someone else should take it over.

Another Uncle and Aunty, they hosted all of us for 3 Christmas Day lunches before one of my cousin’s said they will hold Christmas lunch at their house.

So now Christmas lunch is rotated around the homes of 3 of my cousin’s as they have the indoor space and backyard space to have us all there.

When my second cousin’s were born, that started new traditions in the family as they grew and embraced what is family Christmas lunch and now they are adults, I hope they continue keeping the lunch as a tradition, especially when they meat future partners and start having children of their own.

Over the last 53 years, the time I have been alive, we’ve had loved one’s pass away, there has been family breakdowns and family separations where some members of the family no longer come to family Christmas lunch but I still think about every single person not there joining us.

I think about the people who have passed away; Grandpa and Grandma, both my parents, 2 of my aunties – one of them passed away earlier this year and this is the first Christmas without her, a “cousin in law”. I think about those who don’t come to Christmas lunch even though they have a long standing invitation but don’t join in – family breakdowns can be a bitch but in this situation, I completely understand why and I hope all the people involved are happy with their chosen families, that’s all I ask for.

On Christmas Day, I love cracking open a bon bon to read the bad jokes, wear the paper hat and see what crap toy there is. I love eating Christmas pudding with custard and ice cream, I love singing along to the music playing as we gather and getting into a singing war with who can sing a song better, my cousin’s and I or the younger generation, especially the song, Do they Know it’s Christmas?

I remember when my Aunty and Uncle took over from Grandpa and Grandma having the family at their house for Christmas Dinner and all the cousins, we’d be in my cousin’s bedroom singing along with the songs playing loudly on her record player. Do they Know It’s Christmas? was a favourite when it first was released all those years ago and we cousin’s sang it loudly.  Sorry Next Gen Cousins but we’re always going to sing that song better than you ever will!

I hope that when my cousin’s and I are no longer around, that their kids and future generations keep the tradition of Christmas family lunch going and I know they will because they are tight and best friends.

What family traditions do you have at Christmas time? Let me know in the comments.

Merry Christmas everyone from my family to yours.

Until next time

Kaye x

I remember when I was young…

When I was a child growing up during the 1970’s, they were fun times and they were simpler times, easier times, they were pretty good times. I have a lot of good memories from my childhood which I will share here as they are wonderful memories I have and will always stay with me. Here’s some of my memories from my childhood.

Every Sunday Mum, Dad and I would see my Grandparents. One week we’d go see my Mum’s Dad, my Grampa I called him, Granma passed away when I was 4, so I didn’t really get to know her growing up but every second Sunday, we’d go see Grampa and have Sunday Tea (Dinner) with him, a beautiful 3 course meal which usually included soup, a roast meal and dessert. My Grampa definitely knew his way around a kitchen and whatever he cooked or prepared, that was always delicious! The other Sunday, we’d go see Grandpa and Grandma, my Dad’s parents and have afternoon tea with them. Grandpa being a baker, he’d always bake a cake and there would always be Arnott’s Shapes biscuits on the table as well and what we didn’t eat, I got to take home with me. That box was emptied out by the time we got home as I’d be in the back seat eating that box of Arnott’s Shapes.

Cars during the 1970’s didn’t have seat belts, or if a car did have seat belts, it was usually the driver and the front seat passenger who had seat belts, the backseat had no seat belts in the car. It seems safety wasn’t a major concern for backseat passengers during the 70’s. I remember a friend of my Dad’s who had a Holden Sandman panel van, there was nothing more fun than siting in the back of that panel van as a kid, no seat belt on and with the top half of the rear door up, the wind in your while driving around town.

Growing up, I was a real tomboy; playing with dolls was not my thing. I had a couple of dolls and a couple imitation Barbie’s but I just never played with them. Now if you gave me a Matchbox or Hot Wheels car, I would play with them happily for hours on end with drag races down the hallway, smash up (demolition) derby’s, police chases, you name it, I loved my collection of Matchbox and Hot Wheels cars, I could entertain myself for hours.

In my street, there were 3 of us kids who were the same age and we’d play “Charlie’s Angels” using the 3 houses and re-inacting the episode we watched of Charlie’s Angels the night before. One friend would play Kris, another friend would play Sabrina and I was Kelly. To this day, sometimes we call each other by our “Charlie’s Angels” names. I had a dog also, a white poodle and he got to be “Charlie”.

The universal code during the 70’s was when the streetlights came on, you got yourself home quick smart. I’d always be across the road at a friend’s house and we’d be playing outside, as soon as those streetlights came on, even if we were in the middle of something, we quickly said our goodbyes to each other and I’d run across the street to home.

During the summer months, I’d generally start a game of street cricket with the neighbours. All I had to do was go out onto middle of the street, which was a quiet street generally with my cricket bat, ball and the rubbish bin and start hitting the ball with the bin as stumps. The neighbours who saw me through their windows, they would slowly come out and the game was started. When a car was coming down the street, someone would call out “car” and we’d move to the side of the road, with either the batsman or the wicket keeper grabbing one bin and the bowler would grab the other bin, which one of the neighbours would grab theirs to use to mark the other end of our “cricket pitch”. There’d be at least 8 houses of immediate neighbours playing street cricket most times it was played.

Christmas was always Christmas lunch with my Grampa (Mum’s Dad), Mum’s brother, aunty, cousin, Dad, Mum and me. Sometimes one of my great uncle’s (Grampa’s brother) and great aunty joined us. We’d have lunch and we’d exchange presents and spread the Christmas cheer. My Aunty, every Christmas without fail would sing “I’m dreaming of a white Christmas”, her favourite song. We’d spend several hours celebrating Christmas and then during the afternoon, we’d part company and then Dad, Mum and I would go to my Grandma and Grandpa’s house for Christmas Tea (Dinner). At Grandma and Grandpa’s there’d be more family gathered there with my grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins. I remember every Christmas Grandpa would give all of us kids a small glass bottle of Coke to drink. You needed a bottle top opener to open those bottles, no screw tops back then. After dinner, my cousins and I would go to a neighbourhood playground and play on the equipment and anyone we came across on our walk to the playground, we would wish them a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. In Australia, it’s Summer and daylight savings time, so we can enjoy being outside on Christmas Day.

One of the things I loved doing at night time while Mum and Dad were watching TV in the lounge room was to make a “blankie fort” using a couple of blankets draped over the back of both of their chairs as they sat next to each other in lounge room. I would grab a couple of kitchen chairs and put them behind Mum and Dad’s chairs and make a pretty cool blanket tent behind them. There I could colour in my colouring books, play with my Matchbox and Hot Wheels cars, build something with Lego and enjoy hanging out in my blankie fort.

Friday night dinner was always night fish and chip night from the local fish and chip night. During the 1970’s we didn’t have all the fast food options we have today and there was no having a ton of take away food either as the dinner was always home cooked meal. There were no dishes to wash up either as Mum, Dad and I would eat fish and chips straight from the pack of wrapped up fish and chips. Sometimes I’d get a Chiko Roll to go with my fish and chips. My mum wasn’t the best cook, so I really loved fish and chip Friday nights the best.

As a Christmas present for my 5th birthday, I remember getting a red bicycle with white tyres, I had never seen a bike with white tyres before, so I felt really special getting this particular bike. The make was Dolly. I spent hours riding around the neighbourhood on that bike going to see my friends, riding to the local shops to pick up some items for Mum, or just riding the bike around the neighbourhood. When I grew out of the bike and it became too small for me, it was given away. I hope that the child who got the bike after me had just as much fun as I did riding it around the place.

That’s just a few of my memories I hold dear about my childhood and now I’m feeling nostalgic, so if you want to find me, I’ll be inside my blankie fort colouring in, or playing with my Matchbox and Hot Wheels cars, or my Lego.

 What memories do you have growing up as a child?

Until next time

Kaye

 

 

TV Times…

Wow, I haven’t done a post in a while… life happens but here I am making a new post for you to read…

Who remembers TV back before all the reality shows took over? Remember sitting down and watching a tv show that had a story which featured your favourite TV characters? I do.

I have many streaming services and I binge watch a lot of TV shows I remember watching from when I was younger from the 70’s, 80’s, 90’s and shows that were before my time from the 60’s.

I love escaping into a TV show and being invested with my favourite TV characters from my favourite shows and getting involved with watching them.

A lot of the characters become like family or a friend in the shows I watch as I care for them and take me into their world of TV Show Land.

Even when a character dies, I feel like I’ve lost a family member or a friend.

I don’t enjoy “reality” shows as they have nothing to do with reality as it’s all fake. They are obviously scripted and the people who appear on these shows, they are compartmentalised into stereotypical parts because there’s always the bitch/ass hole, the complainer, the backstabber, the person of colour, someone who is in the lgbtqi community, the crier, etc, depending on what is needed to help make the show more interesting for ratings purposes. Filled with people wanting their 5 minutes of fame.

Reality TV is also cheaper to make than a drama or a comedy series that goes for a half an hour or an hour.

For me, “reality” TV is also too predictable as you can guess what is going to happen before it actually happens as it is all scripted.

Am I the only one who misses good TV shows? You know, like Mission Impossible, Bewitched, The Brady Bunch, Little House on the Prairie, The Waltons, The Love Boat, Cagney and Lacey, The Rockford Files, Emergency!, CHiP’s, Beverly Hills 90210, Melrose Place, ER for example.

I enjoy Law and Order SVU, Chicago Police, Chicago Med and Chicago Fire, Blue Bloods, NCIS, NCIS Los Angeles, Hawaii 5-0 in recent TV show viewing, just to name a few.

I just hope that reality TV doesn’t completely take over and that is all that appears on our TV screens in the future.

I know there are streaming platforms to watch shows that interest me available but I cancelled all the subscription ones as they were costing me a fortune and jacking up their prices, so I only kept the ones that are free, they offer enough of what I’m interested in watching, when I want to watch. I know there are shows I will miss out on watching by not having the paid streaming platforms but that’s okay, the free one’s have enough content to keep me entertained.

Whether you enjoy all the reality shows or not, happy viewing.

Until next time,

Kaye

Who remembers Animal Crossing?

Who remembers playing Animal Crossing? I know there are people out there who have payed Animal Crossing in a Game Cube when the game was first released during the 2000’s.

I started playing the game on my Nintendo DS with Animal Crossing Wild World. The hours I spent playing that game, I loved it.

Then Animal Crossing New Leaf came along. I spent many hours playing that game on my Nintendo DS, then my Nintendo 3DS and on my Nintendo 3DS XL over the years of playing Animal Crossing New Leaf.

I didn’t get to play Animal Crossing City Folk or Animal Crossing New Horizon as I didn’t have the gaming platforms to play those games.

In 2018 I saw in the app store on my phone the game Animal Crossing Pocket Camp and installed it. I started playing getting to level 5 and stopped playing. Over the years, I would play again a few more levels and stop again. This year, I started to get more involved with the game, rather than getting drawn away by other games on my phone and quickly discovered my love for Animal Crossing again.

For those not familiar with the game, Animal Crossing Pocket Camp has the player arrive at a Campsite and the player becomes the Campsite Manager for the game’s campsite, through a conversation with one of the game’s special characters. You also get a camper van which you can customise along with the campsite. At level 15, you unlock a cabin and can customise that too.

The player can travel to 4 locations in the game and speak with the animal campers in those areas, complete animal requests and build up the friendship levels with those animals. Once you have the friendship at the required level and have crafted all the items the animal asks to be made, they can move into the campsite or cabin.

There are lots of things to be made in the game, fulfill requests for your animal friends, customise your campsite, camper and cabin.

The animals move from the 4 recreational areas every 3 hours and the animals in your campsite and cabin, every 12 hours. Don’t worry, they come back in a random pattern so unlike other Animal Crossing games, if a favourite animal moves out, they are not permanently out of the game, never to be seen again.

The other thing about Animal Crossing Pocket Camp being a game on your phone is that in 4 recreational areas in the game, other player’s characters are present as campers too. It’s a social game where you can interact with people around the world but there is no way you can actually speak with a person, it’s all in game and safe for kids to play and cute for adults who are still big kids at heart to play.

There is more about the game but that’s the basics.

I remember when I first started playing Animal Crossing Wild World, Goldie was my first ever animal villager I met. She ended up being my favourite along with Chief, Benedict, Friga, Hopper, Egbert and many others. It’s been wonderful interacting with these animals again in another incarnation of the Animal Crossing series. I have several of my favourite animals from Animal Crossing New Leaf as well. Now I have favourites from Animal Crossing Pocket Camp too.

I have 2 Animal Crossing Pocket Camp accounts. On one I play as a female, since I’m a female and then this year I created a new account and play that character as a male. The female Kaida, she’s more like me, down to earth and into nature and the male character, he’s the cool guy who loves city living. It’s a lot of fun and I can get creative with both characters.

If anyone plays Animal Crossing Pocket Camp and needs new friends, I help with the mine, I gift when I have gifts, I help with various events and I try and sell the native fruit, lemons. Friend codes are for Kaida ID: 66037976955 and for Ozzy ID: 31946660683 so feel free to add me if you need friends who are active on the game.

Happy Animal Crossing everyone

Until next time

Kaye

Generation X, the Awesome Generation…

Hands up if you were born between the years of 1965 – 1980… you are well and truly my people, the Generation X people. My generation.

As a Gen X myself, born in 1971, I love being a Gen X. I love how we know a lot of things to do with the generations that precedes us, The Greatest Generation – those born between 1901 – 1927, The Silent Generation – those born between 1928 – 1945 and The Baby Boomers – those born between 1965 – 1980 as they are our great grandparents, grandparents, great aunts, great uncles, parents, uncles, aunties but we also know a lot of stuff from the generations that succeeded us as well. We know about things to do with The Millennials or Generation Y – those born between 1981 – 1996, Generation Z – those born between 1997 – 2012 and the latest generation, Generation Alpha – those born between 2013 – 2025, as these are our children, nieces, nephews, grandchildren, great nieces, great nephews, our friends children.

We just have a lot of cross generational knowledge with being a Gen X.

Generation X was the last generation who played in the streets, we were the last generation to record songs from the radio onto a cassette tape, we were the first generation to play video games, we were the first generation to use personal computers, we could walk over a kilometre without complaining about not being driven to our destination, we were the last generation to go to our friends homes to see them, remember having to be home as soon as the streetlights came on? We learned how to work the VCR before anyone else, we lived without mobile (cell) phones, we were the first generation who had Sony Walkman’s, we were before the internet, we were the last generation to drive in cars without seatbelts, we were the first generation to use chatrooms, we only had 4 TV stations to choose from and TV stations closed at midnight, we didn’t have social media, the music was also the best.

Generation X is absolutely the best generation in my books.

Until next time

Kaye

Christmas in Australia…

Most people around the world associate snow and cold weather at Christmas time, well, here in Australia it’s quite the opposite as it’s summer time here.

In Australia Christmas is different… we have the option of having our Christmas breakfast, lunch or dinner’s outside in a backyard, a beach, a park for instance. Pubs are open for Christmas lunch as well and it’s something you have to book weeks in advance as they book out quickly.

Even the food we eat on Christmas Day can vary from the traditional Christmas foods to having seafood, a barbecue, or a pub meal.

In my family, we all meet for Christmas lunch at a family member’s house and we all contribute something for the meal, whether it be a part of the meal or money to help cover costs. We eat outdoors under cover. A few of the members of the family bring food they cooked so the host isn’t cooking the whole main lunch.

Bowls of chips (crisps), mixed nuts, Christmas lollies (candy) are put out on the table before lunch to tide us over until lunch is ready. Our menu usually consists of turkey (cut up turkey roll), rotisserie chicken (from a fish and chip shop which was previously ordered for the lunch), leg ham, roast potatoes (cooked in a Webber Barbecue), roasted carrots, peas, beans, potato salad, noodle salad, coleslaw and bread rolls. A couple of hours later it’s the traditional Christmas pudding or for those who don’t like Christmas puddings there’s a chocolate pudding with either custard or ice cream on top.

Our food is buffet style where you go and get your own food and put it on a plate, then go sit down and enjoy. We use paper plates and disposable knives and forks to save on washing up.

After Christmas, the young ones and a few of the adults go for a walk to a nearby park and kick either a soccer ball or a footy around.

Christmas for my family is really just another day as we no longer have kids in the family but it is still a fun day to get together with everyone and I only get to see my family one day of the year.

The weather can be mild temperatures in the mid 20’s to the early 40’s degrees Celsius. On Christmas Day in 2016, the temperature reached a scorching hot 40 degrees Celsius and our lunch was moved indoors as it was too hot to sit outside. Me personally, I’ll take the weather in the mid 20’s on Christmas Day.

However you celebrate Christmas and whoever you celebrate Christmas with, I wish you all a very Merry Christmas.

Until next time

Kaye

Just living in the… 80’s

Hands up who remembers the 1980’s? I certainly do! I was a teenager at the time and living through the 80’s, it felt like a decade that was special as we were experiencing life during this period and that people would be talking about how good this decade was when they were looking back at it. For those who missed life through the 80’s but love the music and hearing about life during the 80’s, this is a list of what you missed and so here are the things I remember of what the 1980’s were about:

Big hair
Rubik’s cubes
Shoulder pads
Slouch socks
Hyper colour t-shirts
Rollerskates
Rollerskating rinks
Walkmans
Boomboxes/Ghetto blasters
Break dancing
Flouro t-shirts
Tracksuits made out of parachute material
Huge mobile (cell phones) phones and you had to carry the battery in a battery case on your shoulder
Atari
Commodore 64
Pacman
Asteroids
Space Invaders
Frogger
Pong
Video game arcades
Amusement arcades
Elastics
Uno
Denim shirts/jackets/skirts
Computers with green screens
Floppy disks
Records
Cassette tapes
No pay tv, just Channels 2, 7, 9 and 10
Betamax and VHS VCR’s
Rotary telephones
No internet
No mobile/cell phones
No social media – Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat, YouTube etc
No Google – we had to go to the library to look things up or look it up in the Encyclopaedia Britannica
Red Rover
Brandy – the game, not the alcohol
Spokey Dokey’s – Putting cards from cereal boxes in the spokes of your bicycle to make some cool noises
Stirrup pants
Jelly bracelets
Clogs
Rats Tails
Mullets
Holes in your jeans – sorry people who wear that fashion today, people in the 80’s bet you to it! Lol
Stone wash jeans
Acid wash jeans
t-shirts 4 sizes too big
Legwarmers
Wearing your collar up, even on polo shirts
Simon says
Hopscotch
Cabbage Patch Kids
Tonka Trucks
Banana seat bicycles
Nerf balls
Hoola Hoops
Swatch watches
Koosh balls
Kazoos
Etch-A-Sketch
Slinkies
Matchbox Cars
Lego blocks
Yo yo’s
Smelly pens and markers
80’s music
Candy cigarettes
West Coast Wine Cooler – for those over 18
PEZ
Bubble tape
Choose your Own Adventure Books
BMX bikes
The Big Mac song, “Two all beef patties, special sauce…”
Crimping irons
Putting the empty plastic potato chip bags in the oven to shrink them
Care Bears
Synthesizers
Soda Stream soft drink makers
Carrying the pack of cigarettes in the rolled up sleeve of your t-shirt

These are some of the memories I have of the 1980’s, what are things you remember?

Anyone who was born after the 1980’s really did miss an incredible decade. I’m glad that I got to experience it first hand, I wouldn’t have missed it for the world!

Here’s to all of us who lived and survived through the 1980’s!

I’m glad you took this walk down memory lane with me, hope you enjoyed it.

Until next time

Kaye

Just a cruise note…

On my 2 cruises that I’ve done now, I would carry around several small notebook and a pen with me on the ship or while on shore excursions, so I can take note of the things I want to remember while on the cruise. This way I have detailed notes of all the things that I want to remember in my small notebooks.

I generally during a quiet time will find somewhere on the ship, in a public place and sit there and write my memories down before I forget the things I want to remember.

I write down the funny things I’ve seen and heard, I write the names of crew members who have gone above and beyond to make sure that I’m having a good time on my holiday (handy for the compliment cards from the Passenger Services Desk on the ship and the survey at the end of the cruise), I write down the informative things, the amusing things, the entertaining things, the highlights of the cruise, about the wonderful people I have met and conversed with.

I like going back to my notebooks and rereading what I have written and remembering those moments.

On my last cruise from Adelaide, South Australia to Fiji and return back in November 2019, I could be found on the Lido Deck scribbling away in my notebook, or in the Explorer’s Lounge, or on the Promenade Deck.

Writing notes at various times during the day or the evening during some down time helps me to remember a cruise, as does taking photos and video’s on my phone.

On my first cruise back in 2018, going from Adelaide, South Australia to New Zealand, on that cruise I had taken so many photos that the friend I was travelling with, jokingly called me “a Japanese tourist” lol. Funny how she wanted half the photos I had taken so she could print them off for herself lol.

The next cruise for next year, December 2023 from Adelaide, South Australia to New Zealand, as it’s going to be a Christmas and New Year’s cruise, I was considering getting the internet package on the ship and do some live videos while on the cruise, especially on Christmas Day and New Year’s Eve but for this cruise, yes, I will be bringing along a pack of small notebooks to write my memories in.

However you remember your cruises, I hope you look back on the memories and smile as you remember the crew members who made your cruise enjoyable along with the memories you made on your cruises.

Until Next Time

Kaye

First cruise memories…

On this day, 4 years ago, a friend and I boarded our first cruise ship, the Golden Princess, for a 17 night round trip cruise from Adelaide, South Australia to New Zealand. The ship definitely became my happy place.

There’s something so magical and peaceful being on a ship. It’s definitely another world. I loved the sea days where I could sit outside of the Promenade Deck and look over the ocean and just relax and forget about the world in general and I did. For 17 nights, I had no idea of what was going on in the world, just what was going on board the ship.

I definitely became a cruise addict while on board the ship. Okay, if truth be told, I think I was addicted even before I got on board. Once on board the ship, it was confirmed that I was addicted to cruising.

I mean, why wouldn’t you be? For the duration of a cruise, you don’t have to cook, wash dishes, prepare meals, do housework, or make your bed. It’s all done for you by the wonderful and friendly crew on board the ship. They just made everything happen with precision.

While on that cruise, I met some wonderful people. I also got to know some of the crew from the cabin steward, the waiters in the theatre, the Explorer’s Lounge, the Lido Deck and in the Horizon Court buffet.

I laughed at the Cruise Director’s team as they entertained the passengers, I enjoyed the shows in the theatre, the barista in the International Cafe got to know my habits and how I have my coffee, or at night before going back to my cabin and bed, how I have my hot chocolate. The waiters got to know my orders as well… chocobana mocktail or a glass of Coke anyone?

While on the ship, I actually forgot that there is a world outside of the ship as I didn’t watch any news to even know what was going on in the world at the time.

One late night sitting in the Piazza and having my hot chocolate, the singer in the Promenade Lounge was playing the piano and taking requests from all the people up on deck 7. Someone had requested YMCA and so the singer is singing the song, he gets to the “it’s fun to stay at the YMCA” part and a few of us sitting in the Piazza on deck 5 start doing the actions. That was funny.

There were many funny moments and beautiful memories from that cruise, I will treasure.

New Zealand is beautiful as well and the cooler temperature, I enjoyed. While the temperature was perfect, in Adelaide, everyone there was going through a heatwave.

One day, I will return for another cruise. I am just waiting for this covid mess to calm down. People, get vaccinated, wear a mask and wash your hands!

I didn’t want to leave the ship. I could have happily stayed on as a stowaway. I had such a fabulous time.

I miss cruising but I have photos to remind me with the memories attached to those photos. One day, I will be back on a ship again, just not now.

Until next time

Kaye

Christmas memories…

I don’t know about you but I love Christmas time. I love everything about Christmas from watching one of my favourite Christmas movies, Love Actually, to listening to all the Christmas carols and songs to do with Christmas. I love giving Christmas presents to people. I love the Christmas foods associated with Christmas. I love getting together with family and celebrating Christmas.

Growing up, my family would go to my grandparents house on my Dad’s side of the family and have tea (or dinner) with the whole family gathered there from my grandparents, parents, aunts, uncles and cousins. It was a fun time.

Granpa would cook a barbecue outside and granma, with the help of her daughters, my aunty’s, would get everything else to eat ready for our meal. Then once it was already prepared and cooked, we’d sit outside on the grass or on chairs and eat. Being in Australia, Christmas is during our Summer, so we are able to do that.

After the main meal, consisting of chicken, ham, turkey, roast carrots, roast potatoes, beans and peas, there would be Christmas pudding with custard and/or ice cream. Granpa would put sixpences in the pudding for us kids to find and then he’d exchange for our current currency we have now. (As a side note, Australia was using the imperial currency of pounds, shillings and pence until 14 February 1966 when it went to the currency we use now). After tea was eaten, we kids got a bottle of Coke each, not a plastic bottle with a screw top either but a glass bottle with a top you needed a bottle cap remover for (one of my uncle and aunty’s lived a few doors down from my grandparents house and there metal fence came in handy for removing the caps from the bottle as well). Before tea, my cousins and I would go for a walk to one of the many playgrounds around my grandparents house and spend time there playing on the equipment. It was always a great time.

When my grandparents became too old to have all the family over and do much of the preparation and cooking for Christmas tea, my Aunty and uncle who lived a few doors down took over and the family tradition continued. I also remember all of us cousins being in one of my cousins bedrooms and singing along to songs playing on her record player. We still know all the words to the Band Aid songs “Do they know it’s Christmas” and “Happy Christmas/War is over” among many others we used to sing along to. We can also sing any Abba song going as well.

As the years have passed, my grandparents have both now gone, as have my parents and so have other family members. Several of my cousins have gotten married or met that someone special and have families of their own now but the tradition still lives on.

Now, there’s 3 of my cousins, they have houses big enough to host the whole family on Christmas Day and their families, who share having all the family over for Christmas lunch these days. The whole family still comes together and now my second cousins are a part of it all. The tradition is still going strong.

I hope that my second cousins keep the tradition going as they get older, just like the older generations in the family have kept it going. For all these years.

One Christmas my second cousins thought they could out sing their parents, second cousins, aunts and uncles. They soon learned that we could still out sing them, especially when Happy Christmas/War is over started playing.

Whatever Christmas means to you, may you be able to celebrate the season with your loved ones. Make memories, cherish those gathered together around the table, enjoy making the meals that will be shared. Remember those who are no longer sitting at the table. Be blessed.

Merry Christmas to you all who are reading this and thank you.

Christmas blessings to you all

Until next time

Kaye