Memory Lane…

On Thursday, March 18, I will be celebrating my 50th birthday. 50 years?! Yes, 50 years! Who would have thunk it, me 50? I am unable to act 50 as I’m still haven’t left my first childhood yet because if there are toys around in a department store with buttons to press, you bet I’m going to be pressing those buttons and making a lot of noise in the process, trust me on this!

In those 50 years, I have also seen a lot of history and changes in technology as well.

Last year I went to the Birdwood Motor Museum in Birdwood, South Australia, where I’m from. There were cars from old vintage cars to the last Australian made Holden car which rolled off the Holden Factory production line in Elizabeth, South Australia in 2017 when Holden’s ceased car manufacturing at the Plant and Holden’s closed their doors.

There was a 1981 Toyota Landcruiser 4 Wheel Drive there and me, being older than that 4 wheel drive, it made me realise that the museum could put me on a platform and I could become an exhibit and talk about the technology changes and history I’ve lived through and used.

I’ve lived life before mobile phones (cell phones), computers, atms, cassette tapes, DVDs, CD’s, smart TV’s, smart phones, digital radio, digital cameras, smart watches, Facebook and other social media platforms, streaming services, credit cards and many other things.

Atari play stations, pay phones, rotary phones, Commodore 64, bank books, Beta and VHS video recorders, black and white TV, video arcade games, pinball machines,  roller skating rinks, Walkman’s, Gameboy… if you remember these, you must be as old as me… lol

I’ve witnessed history with the coming down of the Berlin Wall, the Cold War ending between the US and Russia, 9/11, the death of Princess Diana, Challenger Space Shuttle disaster, just to name a few events.

Remember being the remote control and being the one to physically change the channels on the TV?

Taking photos was fun as well when you had no idea of what you were taking on the camera as you only had a view finder to look through and if it was a blurry photo, you couldn’t delete it. The roll of film would be taken to the chemist shop (pharmacy or drug store) and you would have to wait several days for the photos to be developed and then go to back to the chemist to pick them up and get your first look at what you had photographed… a foot? Half a head? Some other random thing you had no idea you took a photo of? Yep, looking at the photos once you’ve collected could be an interesting experience.

I was in the generation who downloaded music from the radio and recorded the songs on a cassette tape making the original mix tapes.

We all will experience changes in technology in our lives and see history in the making, or be a part of it, in witnessing it.

To the younger generation, when you look back on your life and see the changes in technology or the history that’s taken place, remember that you are in an unique place because you got to be a part of it and that is special. You get to be a teller of history to the next generation who follow you.

Until next time

Kaye

What a year has this been…?

This time last year was the last week of normal life before everything was shut down due to covid-19.

Remember when we were living in a normal world? Remember travelling by plane or cruise ship to exciting destinations around the world? Remember hugging? Remember shaking hands? Remember going to birthday parties and the birthday person would blow out the candles on the cake? Remember the world the way it was before it all changed and we all had to learn to live a new way of normal?

Last weekend, I was so close to booking a cruise for 2022. I was so close to actually booking it that I had my travel agents website up and I was about to hit the chat button and tell whoever was online at the time, to book it, you’ll receive the money for the deposit as soon as we’ve finished our online conversation.

It was going to be on a Christmas/New Years cruise from Adelaide, South Australia to New Zealand return trip, 2 of the safest places in the world right now to travel from and to, on board the Grand Princess. 17 nights. It was going to be fun. I’ve done this cruise before but on the Grand Princess’s sister ship, the Golden Princess. There were a couple ports in New Zealand the Grand Princess will be travelling to that are different from my cruise in 2018 on the Golden but it still would be wonderful to go and do.

I didn’t book the cruise however because in the world we are living in now, nothing is guaranteed. I wasn’t sure if this cruise in 2022 will go ahead, there’s just too many invariables. I don’t care if I have to wear a mask on the ship, or have my temperature taken even before setting foot on the ship, or have to be vaccinated, keep social distancing and use hand sanitiser or wash hands frequently, I’ll do it because I believe in keeping not only me safe but everyone around me safe as well because I really do not want this virus and it’s not just “a little cold” because too many people have died from covid-19.

I didn’t book the cruise because in a world that is unpredictable, the world is not safe. Travel is not safe. Travellers from overseas and interstate have been placed in hotels after arriving at the airport here in Adelaide, South Australia and are taken by bus and placed into one of the various medi-hotels around town to quarantine there for 14 days before they are allowed to be out in the community. I want to ensure that it is safe before I return to being on a cruise ship again and enjoy a third cruise. So until then, I will wait.

In the meantime, as I wait to be able to cruise again, I will look at my photos and videos I had taken while on board a cruise ship of my 2 previous cruises and I will think… one day, I will get to do this again.

Until next time

Kaye

Life Lessons…

Just thought I’d share a few lessons about life I’ve learned throughout the years…

Smile and laugh often

No matter how bad you think your life is, there’s always someone who is worse off than you

Let the inner child come out to play often. Just because we grow old, it doesn’t mean that we have to grow up

Your true friends will not badmouth you or tell lies about you to other people. If they do, they’re not your friends to begin with

Maintain your sense of humour. It will help you to retain your sanity in life

Respect others, you don’t have to agree with them, or even like them

Take responsibility for your actions and accept accountability for all you do in life

Always take the time to learn new things in life

It’s perfectly okay to say no. Don’t feel guilty about saying it

Tell the people in your life that you love them. We don’t tell them often enough. (I need to work on this one myself)

Be yourself

When life gets on top of you, if you’re overworked, or feeling stressed, whatever the situation, dance it out. A good 30 second dance party works wonders

Listen to your body and what it is telling you. If you are in tune with your body, you’ll be more aware when something isn’t right

Give to others without expecting anything in return

Don’t be afraid to speak up and let your opinions be heard

If at first you don’t succeed, try again

All work and no play makes for a boring existence


Speak to elderly people when the opportunity arises. They have much history and knowledge and we can learn a lot from them

Don’t worry about the things you have no control over. Whatever is going to happen will happen and worrying about them will not help, so just go with it

Treat others how you would like to be treated

Enjoy the simple pleasures in life

It doesn’t matter if you are a bad singer, sing away like no one is listening and enjoy yourself

An afternoon nap works wonders for the mind, body and soul

Try to have a positive outlook in life. Negativity does more harm than good

Your true friends will always have your back no matter what

Just when you think you’ve seen everything, it’s then you find out you haven’t

A hug can say so much when there are no words

Be thankful for everything in life you have, there are those in the world who would give anything to have what you have (when we can go back to hugging again)

Don’t wish to have the life of someone else, you don’t know what possible struggles they have to deal with or what their life is like

Life isn’t fair all the time, however, it’s still good

Life’s too short for hating people. We all need to get along with one another

Don’t take yourself too seriously

You don’t have to win every argument, it’s okay to just agree to disagree

It doesn’t matter what age you are, you’re never to old to play with Lego! Or colouring in

Simple pleasures in life, are often the best

Until next time

Kaye